I haven't written lately and that makes me sad. A couple of forces in the universe have been conspiring against me. First, Jim has gone back to school to finish his Bachelor's degree and hogs the computer. Second my job as a trusty dental assistant is taking up way too much of my leisure time, where I get to bake cookies and write in my blog and do crafts and fun stuff like that. This time of year I leave for work when it's dark and I get home when it's dark. When I finally get home all I want to do, after being on my feet for 10 hours, is to put on my jammies, eat some comfort food and go to bed. Good thing because Jim is hogging the computer.
Another quick note - my friend, Lorie's adorable son is helping me to make my blog a bit more user friendly and cuter (for lack of a better word). Michael Homnick is awesome to help me and we should be able to have a new and improved blog up soon. :)
Tonight Jim is out having some fun so I get some uninterrupted computer time. Today is Friday, my day off from sucking spit. Almost every Friday I get together with two of my bestest friends for lunch. We dissect our weeks, whine, bitch, laugh, eat and solve some world problems and laugh some more. We leave our weekly lunch feeling better about life in general and ready to take on another week. Today was no exception. Lorie, Shari and I generally take a Friday before Christmas for a shopping/lunch day. Today was the day. The weather was freezing cold, but sunny and it was so festive being out and about with all the decorations. We went to one of favorite shopping areas just south of Portland. We ate some pasta, drank some wine, ate some chocolate, shopped, tried on clothes for us, bought a few things for others, tried on some more clothes for us, bought some clothes for us and went home. It was a delightful day.
Then, it hit me. One of the things in my life that makes me the most happy are my friends. I have been blessed to have woman friends my whole life. I attribute that to my mom, who always had friends she did stuff with. Having friends is crucial to my sanity. These wonderful people have helped me celebrate happy times and got me through some bad times. So I am going to start a series honoring the friends in my life that have made me very happy.
The first real friends I had when I was little were Tina and Theresa - or Teeners and Tab. I was Nanners. They moved into a house that was three houses down from me when I was about 6 or so. We were all stair-stepped in age. Tina, Me, Theresa, Robbie (their brother), Marty (my brother) and Patty (their sister who we terrorized. Sorry Patty!). Later came Tracy (my sister) and Scotty (their brother).
First day of school, 1970.
Theresa, Patty, Robbie, Tina and Me (looking exceptionally stylish...). Not sure where my brother is...
Our parents socialized and went out on the weekends, our mom's did their canning together, our dad's helped each other with stuff, our brothers were inseparable and so were we. Our mom's took us school shopping together and then we spent hours trying on all our new dresses to figure out what one to wear on the first day of school. My mom made the jumper I'm wearing in the picture above and I slept in wire curlers for that "movie star hair".
If I wasn't spending the night at their house on weekends, they were at my house. Our families had dinner together a lot, we celebrated birthdays and holidays together, and we went camping together in the summers. We went to summer camp together, we played everyday after school, we rode our bikes everywhere (once I learned how to ride the stupid bike - which is another traumatic story for another time), picked gallons of blackberries, walked countless times to 7-11 for candy and Slurpees, had colds, the flu and chicken pox together, made up dances and plays, played horses (I had to be the mommy horse and stay with Patty because I didn't run as fast as the rest of them. Whatever.), or statue tag, or red-light-green light. I could go on and on. Tina loved horses and drew them constantly and on everything. She was (and I'm assuming still is) a talented artist who drew me lots of pictures over the years - usually with a horse in it. When I ended up getting the chicken pox I had a severe case and was quarantined to my bedroom for weeks. The only way we could communicate was by throwing notes in and out of my bedroom window. Here is a note that Tina wrote me and threw in my window. It made me very happy, even though I ended up missing Tina's birthday party.:


We had an idyllic neighborhood while growing up. There were woods to explore, a state "sand pit" where there were ginormous piles of gravel, dirt and sand to play in, bike trails (ours were called the monkey trails), and a lake nearby. We would play until either their dad whistled or my dad whistled and then we knew to hightail it back home for dinner. In the summer we all ran wild. We would leave in the morning after cartoons and breakfast, come home for lunch when we got hungry and then come home for dinner. It was awesome.
Tina, Theresa and Me - 1971
Making up dances in lovely outfits on a rainy day.
Tina, Patty, Theresa and Me - 1972
Before the school talent show. Were were martians. We were supposed to perform to Joy to the World by 3 Dog Night on the record player on 78 so they would sound really fast like martians and we were going to lipsynch. I forgot the Joy to the World record at home and we had to a song none of us really knew so it wasn't very good. :(
Btw - Tina got strep throat and couldn't perform with us.
Us girls went through every "first" known to girls growing up together. Primarily because our moms told each other EVERYTHING, which was then passed down to us. Tina was oldest by a year and "became a woman" first and got the sex talk first. She promptly shared it with me and Theresa, even though she was forbidden to talk about it. We picked that bit of information apart for weeks trying to figure out how everything worked. I had some pretty interesting questions for my mom when she decided I was due for the talk. Then we had to compare all that information for weeks still trying to figure it all out. We went through all the other firsts, too: boobs and bras, makeup, shaving legs, good and bad haircuts, the good the bad and the ugly of deodorant and perfume, good and bad fashion decisions and, most importantly, boys.
One of the things kids in my hometown of Federal Way, Washington did in Junior High in the 70's was go skating at the Federal Way Roller Rink. We saved our milk money all week, choking down those PB & J's dry just so we could be social and skate on Friday night. The big wish each week was to have the boy we liked ask us to slow skate because you got to
hold hands with them.
One fateful and rainy Friday night I took a break from skating and went looking for the girls in the snack area. Keep in mind you are still on skates even in the snack area and the restroom (very tricky). I noticed Tina talking to some boys and ended up tripping and landing in the lap of the most gorgeous boy I had ever seen. Ahhh. Brett. He went to our Jr. High and was in my grade but I had never seen him before. We talked and started noticing each other at school all the next week. Tina liked his friend, Chris, and Theresa ended up with his friend, John. The following Friday the boys were there again. Yay! We hung out with them all night and I even got a slow skate with Brett. Heavy sigh! Tina said we had time and go for a walk with these cute boys before it was time to go home. I was very smitten, so we were naughty and we left. It was everything our parents told us never to do and it was so exciting. We held hands with our cute boys in the rain and all of us ended up getting our first kisses at the same time. It was very romantic. Were we ever in trouble, though, because as we walked back toward the rink in the romantic rain holding hands with cute boys, their dad was sitting in the car waiting for us. Apparently making out in the romantic rain with cute boys takes a little more time than anticipated and were were
very late. Ooops. I was grounded but I was too over the moon to care. Brett was my first boyfriend and remains a friend.
The boys used to come over to our houses all the time on their little Yamaha mini bikes that sounded like lawnmowers. Good times. :)
Tina, Me (on my 12th birthday) and Theresa - 1973
Yes, the cake is chocolate. :)
I was devastated when they moved to a different town right before high school. I honestly did not know how I was going to survive high school without them. The day they moved away was awful. I had other wonderful friends and survived high school, but I missed them terribly. We are friends on Facebook now and have seen each other occasionally throughout the years, which I love. We seem to be able to pick up where we left off and I still love them alot.
Nanners and Teeners a few years ago.
The cookie I chose today have ingredients that go together like best friends - peanut butter and chocolate (a theme with my recipes I've noticed). I modified the recipe I got from Baked Perfection and they are so yummy! I made them in my mini-muffin pan and had to do it in batches, but they are worth the extra work. You can also make them traditional sized, if you want. They are so sweet and rich and delish and I think that they are best bite-sized.
PEANUT BUTTER CUP BROWNIES
1 box of your favorite brownie mix.
1/2 cup peanut butter chips
1/3 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips
3/4 cup creamy peanut butter
1 to 2 tsp (more or less) of powdered sugar
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Spray or grease mini-muffin cups.
Prepare brownie mix as directed. Spoon batter evenly into muffin cups (about 1 heaping teaspoon). Bake for 13-15 minutes or until the top is set and a toothpick inserted in the middle comes out a little wet. After brownies are out of the oven, wait for the centers to fall. This should happen while cooling. If it doesn't happen (and it didn't happen to me), push the centers down with the back of a teaspoon while the brownies are still warm to make a hole for the peanut butter.
Place peanut butter in a microwave safe bowl and microwave on high for 40-45 seconds and stir. While still warm, stir in some powdered sugar to taste. Start with a little and taste each time you mix some in until you get to the sweetness level you like. You don't have to sweeten at all but I felt the pb was a little overpowering just plain. I used about 1-1/2 teaspoons or so. While brownies are still warm spoon about half a teaspoon of pb into the center of each brownie. Top with semi-sweet chips and peanut butter chips. Cool completely in pan. If you can. I couldn't. They are really good warm. :) Enjoy.